tonight in phily...
just got back from a gig in phily...
after the gig this guy came up to me and said...
"considering how unfriendly you are, i was really shocked to see how sensitive you played."
for a second i wasn't sure if i heard him right then realized he did say what i thought he said, i said,
"oh, i'm shy but if you want to be judgmental about me, go ahead..."
he came back toward to me and said,
"i'm not judgmental. i came to the conclusion over the course of the evening" or something like that...
ok... here are some of my after thoughts which i really wish i was able to say it right away but i guess i didn't want to create a scene...
a. he wouldn't have said that to a guy...
b. where the hell did he get that bull shit theory that being friendly has anything to with playing sensitively...
and
c. fuck you...
seriouly...
after the gig this guy came up to me and said...
"considering how unfriendly you are, i was really shocked to see how sensitive you played."
for a second i wasn't sure if i heard him right then realized he did say what i thought he said, i said,
"oh, i'm shy but if you want to be judgmental about me, go ahead..."
he came back toward to me and said,
"i'm not judgmental. i came to the conclusion over the course of the evening" or something like that...
ok... here are some of my after thoughts which i really wish i was able to say it right away but i guess i didn't want to create a scene...
a. he wouldn't have said that to a guy...
b. where the hell did he get that bull shit theory that being friendly has anything to with playing sensitively...
and
c. fuck you...
seriouly...
posted by okkyung at 12:37 AM
3 Comments:
Ha ha ha. You are so right, especially about point c. You're hot; maybe he was annoyed that you weren't flirting with him. Either way, he sounds like a creep.
People are so quick to pass judgement these days. I can't work out why this guy thought he had the right to say that, very bizarre.
I love point B, very well put. That's a very strange connection for him to make, I don't understand it at all.
a. You're right. That's a hilariously bad negative hit. "Shocked"?!? Negative comments about character will turn a shy girl unfriendly. What should he have said to be more engaging?
b. This is ridiculous Kafkaesque bad logic. I like that that he thought it over and insisted that he was right. Its funny. smile.
c. At least he made a significant impact on you. Was he otherwise attractive?
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